Nov 6 · 3 min read
Google “How To Affair-Proof Your Relationship.”
You’ll be bombarded with millions of results — links to books, articles, and other thought-pieces. They’ll all advise you on how to proactively create a “force field” around your marriage (or otherwise monogamous state). If you just do x and don’t do y, you’ll never be on the receiving end of betrayal or infidelity.
I’m here to tell you that that’s absolute bullshit.

