When you decide to go big, you must let go of all that limits you.

You’ll notice I said decide. That’s right, I believe that when a person has great success it started with a decision. This is true for both personal and professional. The people who have succeeded or who are well on their way, made a choice. They chose to close their door to limitations.
What do I mean by this?
We all have limiting beliefs and values. It’s hard not to where we live in a world that’s so easy to crack under the pressures of social media. Everything we do is scrutinized by others and we question whether or not we’re making the cut. People who decide to go big don’t do this, they just get on with it.
However, in order to let go of what limits you, you must first recognize what those things are.
Just recently I myself, said out loud and with no doubts “I’m ready to go big.” This also meant letting go of those things that were holding me back. It meant that I stopped putting in 40 hour work weeks for someone else’s dream and focusing on my own. Most people think, wow what a luxury, but it’s not. It’s hard work and the only way to do it is to keep your eye on the ball. There will be so many distractions along the way such as job prospects that come with a nice auto deposit to your bank but, does it have anything to do with your going big goals? No. If you’ve left your job and are going at it alone, you will hit a slump within 6 months but when you reach your up curve the feeling you get knowing you’re making the same amount doing something where you are the driving force of its success as you made working for someone else’s, is…awesome.
You also have to let go of limiting relationships. They’ll be a distraction. They’ll drag you back down to that pit where you lose focus of the larger picture and your energy is spent and wasted on something that’s not part of going big.
I had been casually dating someone for a very short period of time but as these things happen, it naturally progressed. However, he put clear limits on something that was so natural which ultimately frustrated me stating his lack of interest in relationships from the start (hey, I couldn’t have predicted we’d hit it off) The problem for me was, in the end that this isn’t big enough, it wasn’t part of my going big choice. That’s not to say he wasn’t great enough to be big with (although deep down I think he feels he’s not), or the potential wasn’t there, because it was, but to go along with something so limiting would only pull me back. I was letting his own limiting beliefs become mine. You can’t choose somebody else’s go big time for them and some people never choose it, you can just control your own.
A lot of deciding to go big has a lot to do with changing the messages we tell ourselves “I’m not good enough" yes you are “this won’t work" try it any ways “what will other people think" flock them.
You also have to open and ready:
Big career, big love, big life = big heart
Until next time 🙏
ND
