Nora AY

…experience — and feel All Of The Feelings for your partner, because those are some of the juiciest. Just also understand that love is a choice, an active decision, and a series of investments and efforts and actions. Theproblem with defining love as “feelings” is twofold: 1.) it makes for immature relationships, and 2.) leaves us susceptible to one day “not feeling it” and folding.

The process is the antidote to this problem that we all have. Don’t become so enamoured with your goal that you forget what you have to do right now. Pick your goal, design your process for achieving it, and commit to the process. As Bill Belichick,…

…e all have. Don’t become so enamoured with your goal that you forget what you have to do right now. Pick your goal, design your process for achieving it, and commit to the process. As Bill Belichick, Nick Saban’s former mentor, said, “do your job”.