Stop judging me!

I am so sick to death of people thinking they have a right to judge me. This is one of the reasons why I have and I always stay away from my those who are primarily from my community. Why? Because they have always judged me.

Ever since I was a young girl I grew up seeing this negative trait and the damage it can do to individuals and families. It is bloody toxic! People get so frigging high and mighty based on what they believe and their one dimensional view of the world.

Recent events on social media has made me re-think this topic. People thinking they have a God divine right to pass a comment, be negative and pass judgement. Then spreading that view with others. Only adding pain to the situation as it is the individual they are judging that is truly affected by all the negativity. I have been there so many times because I am not your ‘normal’ British Bangladeshi Muslim woman.

  • I know how it feels to be judged without being given an opportunity to speak up for myself.
  • I know how it feels to be judged when you only want to chase your dream but get accused of something else.
  • I know how it feels to be judged when all you want is a chance for you to make a decent life for yourself without being told you dont deserve that chance.

I know how it feels to be judged and my response is to tell them to do one.

I do not have time for such Bullsh*t.

I do not have time for such negativity.

I do not have time to explain myself to anyone except my mum as only she has that right.

I only have time for positive and forward thinking people. I only have time for goodness and have time for those who also want to do good. I only have time for those who also want to help bring back humanity and happiness to this world.

Hope you enjoy today's clip and if you can relate to what I am saying then help spread some goodness around you.

Love and Peace

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