Based only on desire of sex and proximity, a hook-up site like Tinder is the lowest common denominator of all on-line dating choices. It is no surprise that people don’t bother to talk about themsleves in their profile. But the lowness of the whole hook-up concept inspires men to be at their very worst treatment of women.

Of course, many of these same men are on the “dating sites,” or wastelands, as you refer to them. There, they struggle, misbehave, and abuse, as well, spoiling it for men and women alike.