11 different types of men and if they love you !
by the papergirl
You think you’re in love but it’s probably just infatuation. I mean, it’s not that hard to tell the difference, if you’re looking with your heart and not your eyes.
Romance is easy, anyone can buy you flowers and bring you to the movies, just to sweep you off your feet but to have them actually buy you flowers because they remind them of you and take you to a movie because they know you’ve been dying to watch that Richard Gere film is another level. But it’s 2017, guys aren’t really what they say they are and that scares us women. How do we know it’s time to let our guards down, if he’s the right guy, how do we know that this is love and not another childish game of charades.
1. The snob- The guy who’s so perfect, their families won’t accept you if you don’t meet their standards. Well a guy who is in-love with you will always love you no matter what, so if you need to change for him to respect you then boo, that ain’t ya soulmate.
2. The sex craved- Understand that love takes time, don’t rush him to say the words, his actions will tell you if he does. You do not need to have sex with him to make him love you and if that’s the only thing he Pursues then he doesn’t love you.
3. The cliched- In a case where he’s the type to not believe in love or think he’s too young to love then babe, Get ya ass outta there. If he tells you he doesn’t see a future with you guys then he doesn’t. Don’t force yourself to see what’s not there.
4. The damaged- men like this usually had a tuff start and just want to be loved as much as you. But they’re like grenades and if you don’t handle with caution they will explode. He is worthy of love despite his background, and unless he’s giving you reasons not to love him then I don’t see why not. It’s safe to say he just might be worth it.
5. The pimp- So he’s never around, hardly calls, doesn’t hand you compliments but he buys you expensive jewelry and takes you to the club Friday nights and whenever you try to have a serious conversation he turns it into sex. You couldn’t possibly believe that’s love do you ?
6. Two timer- You’re his dirty little secret. He says he loves you, but he has a girlfriend. Firstly, don’t put yourself in those situations women, it’s a hell of a trip. But in this case, if he does love you he’ll be honest with his girlfriend and with you. There is really no easy way to break up someone, so don’t force him. Love will stay no matter what.
7. The cheater- Never give a man an ultimatum. They retaliate and obliterate everything in their path. If you need to give your man an ultimatum between you and another girl then he’s not yours babe. A guy who loves you will never put you in a position where you have to question their loyalty.
8. The scared- He pushes you away for a reason you don’t know. Men who are scared of love tend to do this, if he does love you, he’ll let you in and if you love him back you’ll be patient with him. But never too patient girl, that boy can also be wasting your time, but my point is.. “Love is patient”
9. Ah the toxic kinda love- he’s spiteful, revengeful, full of anger and prob thinks he’s not worthy of love. Men like this usually warn you and that’s what makes them so toxic. Because you still manage to fall in love even after he tells you how messed up he is. Well everyone wants to be loved even if they’re scared to admit it. Don’t give up so easy, but know when it’s time to go.
10The abuser- there’s no better way to say this to my fellow women, but never you let a man beat you twice. Why twice , because even if you try to fight off an abusive man he’ll still manage to slap you once but never you let that happen again women. Pack your bags and leave. A man who loves you would never lay a finger on you. Don’t make excuses for him and go.
11. Finally, Boys- who just want to live their lives. Always quoting that trap shit “I’m young” Well age has nothing to do with maturity, mature men will know love and hold on to it. Immature boys will let that slip away. So he might truly love you but too immature to see that. Don’t worry women, love has its own way of working out and soon all that love you give out will one day come back and it will stay.
When a guy tell you he loves you, your heart will always know if he’s lying and how he treats you will always clarify.
Yours truly
-The papergirl 🥀
