Is love in entirety in the actions?
Sep 8, 2018 · 7 min read

If a person only pretends to love you, the person’s actions come off as ‘seemingly loving actions (SLAs)’. Eventually, and at some future date, if a person attains to selfish outcomes that were motive for SLAs, they cease to do stuff they used to do; the relationship breaks down. If the person in question (The Pretender) is unable to obtain desired selfish outcomes, SLAs cease, are replaced by unloving actions, the…

