Is love in entirety in the actions?

If a person only pretends to love you, the person’s actions come off as ‘seemingly loving actions (SLAs)’. Eventually, and at some future date, if a person attains to selfish outcomes that were motive for SLAs, they cease to do stuff they used to do; the relationship breaks down. If the person in question (The Pretender) is unable to obtain desired selfish outcomes, SLAs cease, are replaced by unloving actions, the…

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Oghenovo Obrimah, PhD

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Educator and Researcher, Believer in Spirituality, Life is serious business, but we all are pilgrims so I write about important stuff with empathy and ethos

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