yes, this is more ‘whataboutism’.
How horrible! Like integrityism, justiceism, responsibilityism, and makesenseism, none of those disgusting things should ever be considered when talking about relations between human beings. No, what matters above all is when the person speaking is a woman. Everyone else should immediately die of shame and the horrible, horrible guilt of having been born male.
If nobody minds, I’ll just go get the popcorn. All those willing to participate in that shit show, the stage is over there. A few hundred million of us normal human beings will be over here, watching and wondering.