WHAT DOES IT MEAN «SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP»?

Hi! At last, I am writing to you again. We are going to continue our conversation relating to young men and relationship. Today, I would like to talk about the phrase “serious relationship”, which has different meaning for young men and young women. Serious relationship is not what young men have in mind at first.

Don’t expect serious relationship from young men at once!!! He must realize that he needs them. It takes time. Sometimes, it will take a lot of time. How do you know if he would ever come to the idea of ​ serious relationship?

The fact that a young man does not have serious intentions at the beginning is not a problem. You look for relationship your whole life. It is important to you and therefore you initially value your relationship higher than he does. Your goal is to build.

A young man, above all, wants to get. He is a getter. Therefore, it does not matter for him how your relationship would end since it is less important for him at first.

You are not going to start a relationship, if you do not see the possibility to build a serious one. He is not going to build relationship with you, if he does not like you. Another words, the word “wedding” would appear in your horizons in different times. You would have this word in mind immediately; he would have it much late.

It means that you do not need to push him and expect a lot. However, do not allow him anything beyond simple communication. Nevertheless, do not give him any reason to believe that you do not think about him seriously. It will make a moment of thinking about wedding much further.

If you talk a lot about serious relationship, you will irritate him. There is a danger that such pressure will make him bored very easily. However, in this case, you do not need this relationship as well.

A young man speaks with young woman through the actions, not through the words!

You always must to express clearly and specifically that your intentions are serious. Do not start to build relationship until you are sure that it would end with wedding! Talk about it. Your actions should be based on it. This is the only way to find your prince and save yourself from players.

Serious relationships scare most of young men. They prefer flirt and possession. 
 They do not think about anything else. Only few think about marriage, children and family when they meet you for the first time.

It does not matter if he is believer or unbeliever. He thinks about sex first. He evaluates your appearance, not your inner world. He wants someone before he falls in love.

Because serious relationship for a young man is not the motivation for dating, do not trust him. He would tell you whatever you want to hear in order to get what he wants.

People say that a man loves with his eyes, but a woman loves with her ears. This is partly true. Love words are important for you. Words do not have much meaning for a young man. What is important for him is action. His language is his actions.

Do not trust his words, but watch carefully how he acts. His actions speak louder than words about his true intentions.