G-Spot Stimulation Guide — How to Find Your G-Spot & Have a G-Spot Orgasm
G-spot stimulation is a great source of pleasure for some women and for others it is a new, unexplored, pleasure spot. Here you’ll find some techniques, new ideas, and other tricks to help you with this erogenous area if is new to you. Don’t be intimidated, it just takes practice to find what works for you. But you’ll find the extra effort is well worth your time!
The vaginal area has many pleasure spots that can be sensitized. The G-spot is one that is widely known, but often mysterious. The mysterious G-spot is located on the front wall of the vaginal cavity.
It isn’t necessarily directly in the middle, because all women are different and therefore each woman’s G-spot is uniquely situated. The G-spot is a pressure point so you need to use firm pressure when stimulating it.
The G-spot is embedded in the front vaginal wall, is about the size of a dime, and consists of rigid, firm tissue. It is technically called the urethral sponge and is like the tissue that is inside the penis. When this tissue gets aroused, it grows. Therefore, in order to make the G-spot more accessible for stimulation, some women make special injections in the area of this point.
G-Spot Stimulation
Insert 2 fingers and make a ‘come here’ motion. Ladies, to locate the female G-spot while lying on your back, insert a finger or 2 (with lube) and stroke the upper wall like you’re trying to point to the back side of your belly button from inside your vagina.
Make a ‘come here’ motion with your fingers to stimulate the area over and over with pressure. One or two fingers might not do it for you because some women like a full feeling.
Also, some G-spots are off to one side or the other so feel around to find what gives you the maximum stimulation. If you’re looking to achieve a G-spot orgasm through G-spot stimulation alone, it can be difficult especially when you’re new. Don’t get discouraged, it might take some time.
For most women, it works better with external stimulation of the clitoris or other erogenous zones while stimulating the G-spot.
Some sex toys are made especially for G-spot stimulation. Common G-spot massagers are cylindrically shaped with a curved tip. This special shape is designed to help apply firm steady pressure like the ‘come here’ motion over and over.
If you would like to try simultaneous clitoral and g-spot stimulation you should try the Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibe. I bought this exact one for myself after reading the reviews.
If you would like to try solo G-spot masturbation, start by getting comfortable, relaxing your mind, and letting it wander. When you’re in an uninhibited state, apply lube and start to engage in manual stimulation. Intimate Organics makes a G-spot gel that is formulated to increase the size and sensitivity of the G-spot and make it easy to find and stimulate.
When you reach a point of heightened state of sexual arousal, insert your G-spot vibrator or G-spot dildo with the curve pointing upward and experiment with different strokes and different kinds of pressure along the front vaginal wall.
You can apply a little extra pressure or less pressure, firmer or quicker to experiment and get familiar with this erogenous zone. Thrusting in and out is not really for G-spot stimulation; you mainly just insert the toy and move it around while it’s there.
For G-spot stimulation during sex with your partner, there are some sexual positions that stimulate the G-spot more than others. The common ‘missionary style’ where the woman is lying on her back and the man is on top face-to-face, does not hit the G-spot as well as other positions. One of the best positions for this type of stimulation is from behind commonly called ‘doggy style’.
Note
Don’t be alarmed if you feel the urge to urinate. It’s perfectly normal to feel like you have to urinate when you are about to have a G-spot orgasm.
Before G-spot masturbation, make sure you empty your bladder that way you’ll know that you’re not passing urine when you feel you have the urge. In order to have a G-spot orgasm you need to get past that point — so relax and let go.
Also, be aware that fluid can be released during G-spot orgasm and G-spot stimulation. But it’s not urine, it’s known as female ejaculation. This fluid is secreted by the paraurethral glands called Skene’s gland.
