The Power Of Personal Responsibility
The biggest obstacles between you and your dreams and goals are uncertainty, procrastination and a lack of clarity around what you actually want and what actually makes you happy.
You (your mindset to be more precise) is more often than not the limiting factor that is holding you back from achieving what you want (fill in the blank).
Stop looking at other people’s lives and being distracted by other people’s goals and start to get clear on…
Who YOU are and what YOU want.
What does success look like to you?
Spend less time watching other people’s lives and trying to learn the secrets and techniques they used to create X, Y, Z.
Spend more time participating in your own life and, if you don’t like what you find, then be a grown up and realise that you created what you have with the choices and decisions you made.
This is the birth of personal responsibility.
And the beautiful thing about accepting your situation and taking responsibility for it is realising that you also have the power to change it.
There’s no “secret” force that will bring you what you want over night if you just sit there and visualise it hard enough.
Instead you have to make tough decisions, set goals, prioritise, be willing to sacrifice and be ruthlessly honest with yourself.
But first of all you have to get very clear on what it is YOU want to achieve, so you know where you’re heading.
This is what creating your own reality means to me and is something I try to remind myself of on a daily basis.