Once A Moon

We have to be emotionally and mentally ready; be well-equipped with good standards — and mostly that means framing up a partner as a human being, not a physical manifestation of our ideals.

Milan Kundera wrote, “Loves are like empires — when the idea that they are founded on crumbles, they, too, fade away.”

Glover determined that Nice Guys believe in three “covert contracts” that define their interpersonal relationships: if they’re nice, people should love them (and want to have sex with them); if they meet others’ needs, others should meet their needs; and if they do the right thing, their life should be easy.