03 The 19th hole

Too some people its the bar, the lounge, the restaurant, to others its home or a quiet place somewhere away from the conversation of the game. Lets face it, if you lose the last thing you want to do is talk about losing. None of us like losing but sometimes its bearable especially when the other team or player was simply just better, you know, they know, everyone knows it, the thing is what are you going to do about it.

The 19th can get you into trouble if your fuse is short, a wrong word here or there, the gloating glance, the sarcastic remark, then the red mist descends and all hell breaks lose, you wake up the next day feeling your in a trap that you cant escape from, feeling guilty from your actions, what you said, what you did, who you said it too, its not pretty, but neither is losing.

Winners travel a long road, losing happen quiet a lot along that road and its how you deal it with it that counts, what you learn from it and how you change and adapt so that you can reach you potential. The question is how are you going to get there and with who?