Be Better Men.

Dear men…

The woman is not a goddess. A woman is as mighty and as equal as a man, and just as fallible. Is that okay with you?

Dear men…

Please find security in yourselves in light of a woman’s independence. If you are independent, she has every right to be as well. If you date a secure and independent woman, you also have to be secure. If she can change the oil in her car and has done so for many years with or without your assistance and presence, it should not emasculate you…

Dear men…

Misogyny has gotten you fooled that full blown worship of a woman isn’t misogyny at all. If you deify a woman, she can’t be fallible and the gross, fully functional human being that she is. If you compare her to your favorite porn star and she doesn’t anty up to your wildest fantasies, you belittle the human being she is for the object you wish to use for her subjugation to your whims.

The deification and belittlement of the woman are two sides of the same coin. Find a different coin to flip…the same one you want used to value you.

Dear straight men…

A gay man finding you attractive does not emasculate or strip you of your inclination to women. Threatening an angered and violent pummeling does not restore your sense of masculinity; it strips you of your humanity. Take the compliment in stride and move on. Chalk up your attraction to meaning you are attractive.

Dear men…

Find security in your manhood that does not endanger or belittle anyone or anything else. Find security in yourselves that is not dependent upon another woman or man. Find security in you being created and done so out of cosmic and divine love. Love your imperfections and yourselves.

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