3-Step Process For Positive Behavior Change

Positive habits are tough to form, especially, after a certain age.

Streaks are powerful.

Notifications help nudge you towards your goals. It also helps to have someone (or something) to keep you on track, continuously.

Like most of you, I started my new year with new resolutions. One of them is to click a photo of myself running 5K every day, and, send it to a select group of my friends/family.

This resolution is inspired by one of my mentors - Rajib Roy.

My initial process was simple. I just started running, like Forrest Gump.

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Then, I realized, it is very easy to get started, but, much tougher to keep going.

The January weather in Northern California was brutal, sub-zero kinda cold, cloudy, rainy and foggy. I had to wear everything except my blanket to my runs.

The three step process that I used, is as follows.

Step 1: Set simple goals — it is important to come up with a simple, measurable goal that you can monitor continuously. In this case, I set my goals using an Apple Watch. I didn’t realize initially, but, completing all the three rings, everyday, is a very strong motivator to keep me going.

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Step 2: Assign people you are accountable to — One of my coaches from business school, Marshall Goldsmith, applies this tactic to help executives shed some of their bad habits. It helps a great deal if you are accountable to a person who asks you simple questions everyday about the habit that you are trying to form (or leave).

For me, this included my select group of my family/friends, who nudged me if I missed reporting details of my daily run to them.

Step 3: Report feedback, continuously — If you are not reporting back your everyday status in a visible format, then it will be hard for you to keep yourself honest. I used Apple Keynote to build a collage of pictures, that I report back, on a continuous basis.

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Technology is not all about addictive bad habits, it can help you form new positive habits as well. My Apple technology stack that helped me for this process includes:

  1. Apple Watch to track my three rings
  2. iPhone to click my photos as a self-timed-selfie when no one else is around
  3. Keynote to quickly put together a collage of pictures to share

The same 3-step process can be applied to many different positive habits that you are trying to form. I am applying the same process to other behaviors I am trying to inculcate, including, writing (if you have observed, my posts every week), reading, learning to play tabla and coding.

Hope to see you on the trail soon.

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