5 Ways to Vet Out Wrong Men!
Do you ever wonder when Mr. Right is ever going to show up?! While I’m not a psychic (and don’t believe that psychics know), here are 5 of my hard-learned lessons that will help you vet out wrong men quickly — in the real world — so you can REALLY attract The One!
1. Get to Know Him First Before Becoming Too Attached
Physical, chemical, and sexual attraction isn’t enough — not even if you have a ton in common and he’s sexy and rich!
Take the time to get to know someone very, very well FIRST, specifically when it comes to getting your core wants and needs met BEFORE having sex and becoming so emotionally attached that you can’t walk away if he’s wrong for you; otherwise, you’re doomed to fall in love with a fantasy of how you wish things could be, which always ends up in heartbreak and wastes your precious time.
There’s no such thing as going too slow when he’s really The One.
2. Prioritize Getting Your Wants and Needs Met (Instead of Getting His Approval)
Your core wants and needs include: 1) How you need to be treated, 2) How a man needs to behave, and 3) How a man needs to express his love to you for you to really feel deeply loved, safe, secure, and happy in a relationship with him.
Getting your core wants and needs met in these three ways should always be your FIRST PRIORITY, rather than fearfully setting yourself aside in hopes of gaining his commitment and approval!
If a man can’t give you what you want and need, he’s definitely NOT right for you (no matter how much you wish he were).
3. Gain the Courage and Skills to Speak Up for Yourself Gracefully
Don’t suffer in silence when something’s WRONG. Not only is this self-torture, but bottled up hurt and anger eventually explodes, sabotaging relationships anyway!
However, it’s crucial to know HOW to speak up healthily and gracefully because attacking, blaming, yelling, and screaming won’t work. No one hears you when you come at them aggressively (even if you’re clearly in the right).
Furthermore, a negative communication style will surely create what you don’t want — an unhealthy, dysfunctional relationship that doesn’t work.
You’ve got to get skilled in healthy, gracefully communication NOW, so you don’t blow it when Mr. Right shows up.
4. Consistency is Key
Every single man who broke my heart was INCONSISTENT! They inconsistently texted, inconsistently called, and inconsistently made time for me (because they didn’t want to commit).
If a man doesn’t prioritize you, then he’s not worth prioritizing.
When the right man shows up, his actions will be CONSISTENT, and your heart will feel SO GOOD because of it.
5. Cut Your Losses Early
If you know that he’s NOT “The One” for any reason(s), let him go because what’s blocking you from meeting the RIGHT man is wasting your precious time on the WRONG ones (even if you’re only seeing him part-time).
Closing the door is the best thing for BOTH of you unless there’s MUTUAL belief that you belong together.
You’ve got to vet out wrong men and walk through the fire of letting every single one of them go quickly to find your RIGHT man any time soon.
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