I have as much right to decry religious harm as you have to accept it.
Nonsense. Do not pretend to know what I intend.
Rev. Fred Denial

What you DON’T have the right to do is take a huge dump on my legitimate pain, and be arrogant about it.

Why not be open and honest in your first response? I am genuinely sorry for your loss. I would have humbly shared more about personal stories of loss to religious extremism. Why go about this in an antagonistic way? What did that achieve?

All you have done is cause us both more annoyance and pain, ending in alienation. Fred Daniel, you cannot even see how much better you think you are than me. We are both in this painful world together. The more you push people away, the worse off you are. I hope you realise this soon.

Don’t feel sorry for me. I am ready to admit I don’t have it all figured out, but I am not pushing people away.

Wishing you healing.