“I Hate That Men Don’t Want Me.”

How the decline in dating harms women, and what happens to the “leftover” girls that can’t seem to catch a break.

Ossiana Tepfenhart

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Photo by engin akyurt on Unsplash

Don’t ask me why, but I’ve always been the type of girl that the vast majority of men just don’t want to romance. They’ll fuck me, sure. But they generally don’t romance me. I often have to scream and yell for it. It’s not because I’m not hot, either. I’m just…not what typical men want.

To a point, it feels like I’m alone in this even though I’m not. If I were honest, I know that I’m not the only one in my circle of friends to have this issue. There are a lot of women out there who would adore and appreciate those gestures that never get them.

There’s no rhyme or reason to it. I’ve seen it happen to virgins, and I’ve seen it happen to porn stars. No joke. Most of us who are “not that type” just kind of settle or end up quietly walking away from men altogether. It hurts.

And sometimes, things actually get a little worse.

How could it get worse than being the girl guys don’t ever want to be with? Well, there’s a sizable group of women who don’t get male attention at all. Let me be blunt: if you are not conventionally attractive, you’re basically invisible to most of the male gender.

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Ossiana Tepfenhart

I’m a weirdo who loves to write. Deal with it. Available for hire. Instagram @ossiana.makes.content