Thank you so much for asking us to do better. I am thankful that someone who is allowed to say something did. I'm encouraged to see others response to your request. People's dignity is not a tea bag, or some commodity. It's a spirit that needs to be protected. I have seen the horror of rape, but also I have seen what emotional manipulation can do. It's destructive and we need to fight it with the same strength that we do with all methods of dehumanizing in our culture and world.