My nan told me you’ll have to kiss a lot of frogs, and sure it’s not about the casing but what lies beneath. In life and love values matter so much. Many want “in love” and then when they get it and there is emotion and commitment, panic and fear sets in. Love is a battlefield alright, problem is that we think of love as “me” — I’m in love — and not “we” — understanding the give and take is where love evolves from lust and becomes more — a partnership. Reciprocity is key and for me being direct and getting to the real person beneath the outer casing, the beating heart of their values and what they stand for is what I concentrate on before anything else with all I meet. It also culls out the time wasters and keeps me sane :)
I wish you a smile on your face, love in your heart and a warm embrace …