Pam Vodenova
Jul 20, 2017 · 2 min read

Let The Negatives Build You Not Destroy You

If you really think about it, everything negative in your life that has happened has given you something positive in which you are so grateful and “lucky” to have. The times that we spend going through our darkest days and times when we feel like we can’t catch a break are the most crucial times in our life. So much learning takes place not during those times but after. You never understand what you did to deserve everything but what you also don’t understand is, that moment is helping you grow. You need to take every little thing that went wrong, reevaluate what you did, how you felt, and what you can do next time to avoid it happening again.

Life is about EXPERIECE. if you are not having downfalls then you are not trying, you are not living. No matter how hard your life is right now , I need you to know that it will be okay in the end. Life is short, don’t give up and keep pushing to get what you want, what you dream about. You can get anything you want in life and the only thing stopping you is your thoughts. You need to believe in yourself and work harder than you ever have to start seeing things and living a life you haven’t lived. You need to take everything and see what you have learned and see what you can teach others. You need to stop feeling sorry for the place you are at and the circumstances that have led you there. Instead you need to start taking action in order to see a difference in your life. You need to start making changes and start getting out of the comfort zone you have been living in.

So don't let negatives bring you down but let them build you and guide you into building something bigger for yourself.

-Pam V.

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