The Etiquette of Greetings: Handshakes, Hugs, and Air Kisses — What’s Appropriate?
Have you ever gone in for a handshake while the other person leaned in for a hug, resulting in an awkward shoulder bump that neither of you will ever forget? Do you ever wonder if you should go for a handshake, a hug, or an air kiss? Who leads? How do you avoid being awkward or offensive? Greetings are a crucial part of our daily interactions, but they can also be a source of anxiety. How do you avoid being awkward or offensive? Let’s break it down.
Before we dive into the how-to’s, let’s take a quick look at the history of some common greetings. The handshake dates back to ancient Greece, where it was a gesture of peace, showing that neither person was carrying a weapon. It was also a way to seal deals and demonstrate mutual respect. Hugs, on the other hand (pun intended), have a more universal and timeless appeal, symbolizing affection and warmth across various cultures. The air kiss, often associated with European socialites, has roots in the cheek kisses of the French and Italians, evolving as a sophisticated way to greet without invading personal space. Now, with a bit of history under our belts, let’s get into the nitty-gritty of modern greeting etiquette.
