Invest in YOSELF

In a world of seven BILLION homies, there are absolutely no guarantees. Every single person in your life can walk out whenever they so choose — we just trust that they won’t. (This doesn’t always work out in our favor LOL but hey you live and you learn okay?)
There is only one person out of the billions that will stay with you for as long as you roam this planet of ours and that’s…well…yeah, you!!
If you’re going to put your energy, love and attention to some good use…why not first put it towards yourself?
Okay yeah, I get it. This is definitely easier said than done. It is human nature to want to be wanted. We all just wanna shower someone else with our love and have it be reciprocated.
In fact, I’m almost positive you’re sick of seeing articles like these that constantly promote a focus on self-love as a method of healing. You’re sitting there like “ok Parnika I get it, but I’m still sad. I don’t know how to just focus on myself — I’m not wired that way.”
WELL DUH. That’s what makes this such a fulfilling process…
it’s not an easy one.
but HEY there is a reason those of us on this journey are sharing our process with you...we see the benefits and want you to adapt a similar mindset.(you see how my self-love is slowly motivating you to do the same so lowkey I am helping you which is satisfying my natural need to help others…it’s almost like self-love makes it easier to invest in other people!! I KNOW. PLOT TWIST INDEED!)
and just in case you’re starting to feel special or whatever, recognize that there isn’t a single damn feeling in this world that you are feeling that someone else before you hasn’t felt. One of the most dangerous tricks your mind will play on you is convincing you that you’re alone in how you feel.
Yeah sorry to break it to ya but you’re not THAT special (you also kinda are tho so like don’t forget that #selflove)
Go through the motions. There’s a reason people say life is a rollercoaster and if your ride seems to be on a never ending downward slope, recognize that you’re still in control. Invest in the one person that’ll never let you down — you.
As for the rest? Well, sit back, relax and enjoy the ride.
