I loved this. Thank you.
Sexuality is so strange. My boyfriend is definitely of a more effeminate nature. And he does enjoy dressing up from time to time. So there may be something to your friends’ theories.
There are so many colours both of people and desires. What I love about this small community on Medium is that we can share and see each other for who we are, beneath the skin.
I hope one day to be able to do this in the bedroom. To not see my flabby stomach. To just love me and my partner for who we are. I’m working on it.