How to survive Emotional Detached Parented
Two Parents households are becoming outdated. A luxury for the few wanted by many children.
Your Parents was not there for you so what. They left long before you could identify who you were and now feel the world owe you something. Wonder why suffering from the delusion that every child has to be raised by mother and a father.
Before you start partying hardy in misery and invite millions to your grandeur show. Deceive into thinking that your parents should pay for the hurt you are feeling. Think again it’s not that kind of party. That needs to belong is nothing more than your perception. Clinching to false hope won’t help what you needed is an action plan. Time to take back your power which will lessons confusion. Before rushing to join March for joy, self-improvement or any other groups. I challenge you to change your mindset.
Get up, show up and go do something with your life sounds familiar. Depriving yourself from happiness only causes sadness and prolong sadness leads to depression. Don’t be mad accept my apology for being a straight shooter. Not preaching needed to hear that no one is going to care unless you take steps to care for yourself. Your failures, hardship should prepare you for the world. Don’t buy into the hype that someone going to come to your rescue. You cant always have if your way.
No not this time a lot of adult forgets they where once a child who made many mistakes. What’s becoming trendy parents that emotional unavailable for their children I call mental starvation.
Change your thoughts take times. Let your mistakes and hardship fuel your fire. Its important to know that you are not alone. A parents can be a grandmother, uncle and extended family who will love you just as a two parent would.
“I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” Marilyn Monroe
Why harbor feelings of angry and pain towards your parents, which causes depression. I understand this hard but now is the time to make peace and let go so you can move on and improve your life.