Ben Franklin’s 13 Virtues: Week 3, Q3
Order: “Let all your things have their place; let each part of your business have its time.”
Personal notes for the week:
- Busy week ahead, plot it out;
- Do not over plan, keep it manageable;
- Each task is usually composed of several steps, list them out;
- Provide cushion; fill it if needed, enjoy it if not.
Procrastination is how I get things done; every week I write a relaxed schedule and every week I finish writing this blog at 5am. Some weeks flow smoothly but most have their interruptions. Like on Wednesday, when I lost my wallet rushing my daughter to the dentist; interruption accomplished, Order eviscerated.
If there’s a benefit to procrastination, it’s complete laser focus at the finish line. But the drawback is that any interruption is a spark to gasoline; anger burns with the slightest agitation. How we handle ourselves during this moment is hardest because we are at our weakest: tired, stressed and anxious. It took a lot of energy to keep from yelling at my daughter as we looked for my lost wallet — a lot of energy.
Truthfully, I enjoy Order; plotting vacations, streamlining expenses, cooking foods; cooking is one I enjoy most. The prepping of food, the mapping of time, helps create hours of quiet. The mind put at rest and the body at ease, the moment wrapped in the comfort of Order. With each thing in its place, Orderliness stirs contentment — if only I could do this all the time.
Order breeds quiet; slowing down the world and letting appreciation sneak in. How often do people complain their train is on time? With the day over-packed and over-scheduled I lost a wallet and almost lost it on my daughter. Thankfully, a kind stranger left the wallet untouched with a gracious subway attendant and saved me hours of worry and misery. In this crazy time sometimes Order still finds its way, and wallets are returned, and people remind you that there is good in the world.
Ben Franklin’s 13 Virtues: Week 4, Q2
Resolution: “Resolve to perform what you ought; perform without fail what you resolve.”
- Determine key tasks this week;
- Focus on these tasks;
- Dutifully and purposefully complete each.
I’m traveling this week, and when I travel it’s always a bit difficult to get work done. Getting it done will be especially hard with good food and great friends; it’s going to take a lot of resolve.
Good luck this week,
Originally published at bens13.com on August 29, 2016.