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From How to Do the Right Kinky Thing- Ethical Principles for BDSM by Leatherati

…one of us wants to feel, afterward, that we were just being used to work out someone else’s issues. And if you know you have specific psychic trigger points, help your partners avoid them.

From How to Do the Right Kinky Thing- Ethical Principles for BDSM by Leatherati

s us…kay — and may even, paradoxically, empower the “victim” — when it’s a temporary, reversible effect. What’s wrong is to diminish someone permanently. So there’s ample room for ethical puppy play or for scenes where a person is used as a seat, table…

From How to Do the Right Kinky Thing- Ethical Principles for BDSM by Leatherati

olves hurting someone? Because hurt and harm are differen…iple, especially given that SM often involves hurting someone? Because hurt and harm are different: hurt is temporary, but harm is lasting — whether it’s physical, like loss of a limb or function; psychological, like PTSD or reduced self-…

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How to Do the Right Kinky Thing- Ethical Principles for BDSM

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