Look up the Plumb Line, article…This Destructive Spirit is Destroying Destinies. By Jennifer LeClaire. Just read it this morning by total accident. I also have a horrible mother I haven’t spoken to in a year, but the good thing for me is, I’ve had enough of her and I am done. Had a meeting with my sisters last night about her. Check it out, I hope it helps you! Then just forget about her even though she is your mother. You can love her from afar!!!!