It’s hard to know the appropriate time to reveal something personal on first meeting, I play that by ear, but putting your feet up on a seat in a restaurant, that’s not classy. Perhaps he didn’t initially ask for your number because he knew he was out of his league. lol If I meet a woman and I’m attracted to her and the interaction is good, I’ll ask to see her again. I’m still a believer in the man taking the lead in that way.