It is not my blog.
Svetlana Voreskova
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I couldn’t possibly know that blog wasn’t yours unless I knew you or if I found something written by you stating that it wasn’t your blog. I think I read all your medium posts and your google plus posts going back 6 months or so and I found nothing on it.

As you say, it’s very subtly done. Horseshit is mixed in with some wise counsel.

To be clear, I have nothing against sex games provided it is between consenting adults, whether money is exchanged or not. It is none of my concern. My problem was with some of the dodgy advice given.

I am sorry to read about the trouble you have been having with stalkers.

This guy (assuming it is a man, could be a woman) is a psychopath.

You had to play wack-a-mole with him and he prevailed. That makes me angry.

I have a number of thoughts and insights about psychopaths.

Psychopaths have low energy. They can only stalk one prey at a time, usually. It is very difficult for them to mount a two or three front war or more than that. Chances are the psychopath who preyed on you has moved on. That blog post is nearly 4 and a half years old. Possibly he has forgotten about it.

Psychopaths have short attention spans.

Psychopaths have shame based personalities. Even if he hasn’t forgotten about it, he may be too ashamed to return to check on his handiwork.

If you were to initiate a process to have that blogspot post removed, chances are, he’ll do nothing this time. And even if you still have to resume a game of wack-a-mole with him, you may prevail this time because it is likely he has other prey in his sights that are drawing down upon his already low energy level.

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