love is an intangible, ghost you can chase your entire life, and never catch any easier than a stay cat.
Personally i started with acceptance, and have found it a very comfortable place.. Accepting your self can still tougher than accepting others, if for no other reason, than you aren’t responsible for them, and you can forgive their problems..
So if you forgive and accept others you will eventually get it…And accept and forgive your self…
it is a difficult concept to embrace,that other people are just as, if not more fucked up than you are