That’s awful. Reminds me a lot of my own experience at my last company. HR was worse than useless. Towards the end, as it was becoming clear that they really didn’t want me there anymore as I couldn’t follow their made up “rules,” I just decided to quit. Was I scared? Yes, as I didn’t have anything else lined up at the time, I did struggle for a few months, also effected my relationship at the time. But I still think it was the best decision I made.