Will surely send you the link. Personally i feel too much comparisons to be a signs of the person being still stuck in high school mode.
A person who is self actualizing or in tune with his purpose should naturally have a less amount of ego.
We want to be feel significant , this is i think our social dynamic. But there is also a longing for freedom in all of us, that’s why i think we travel and do stuff like that. I think the side we invest in more wins.