The 4 things you should never do when you want your ex back

Your phone rings and you see that your ex is calling. You hesitate. You start to get nervous. You start talking to yourself.

After a few seconds you pick up and start to talk. Somehow the conversation starts getting sour and she says she has to go. You call her back.

She doesn’t pick up. You text her and she doesn’t reply.

{ crickets… }

You lost her forever.

In this stage of the game, every mistake you make IS a deal breaker.

Here are the top 4 things you should never do while you are pursuing her back.

1) Tell them your feelings

The majority of people believe that being honest and straightforward is the right way to live, but you will end up losing this battle if you believe this. The game is being played and you need to play it or you risk falling behind.

On a psychological level we all love mystery. This is why when someone tells you everything about them, they aren’t as enticing because there isn’t anything to figure out anymore. You know everything.

Goal: keep them on their toes

2) Accept every invitation

Accepting every invitation is basically telling your ex that you have nothing else going on in your life and their life is worth more than yours.

Goal: be unpredictable

3) Ask if she’s dating someone else

This is a weak maneuver. A true confident man doesn’t care to compare, because he know’s what he brings to the table.

Goal: stop comparing

4) Change who you are for who she wants you to be

She wants you to grow a beard. Don’t.

She wants you to buy these shoes. Don’t.

She wants you to talk differently. Don’t.

You get the picture.

Bowing down to her request in this stage of the game is very important. She will know that she still has you under her control and that isn’t motivating.

Goal: be the person you were when you met them at first, not who she things she wants you to be

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