Modern Spirituality is only for the Rich

Margarita Celeste
Aug 6, 2016 · 5 min read

Scrolling through my newsfeed recently, I stopped on an event that caught my eye — a New Moon, Women’s Celebration get together, in which the intro read something like “Women need a community and a tribe to be a part of, we have lost our connection to the Feminine, to our cycles etc etc” . “Yes!” I thought — I couldn’t agree more. Eagerly, I clicked and scrolled to see the details. When I got to the cost, I deflated. And not for the first time in these last few years.

As a Spiritual Counselor, I completely understand the amount of energy that it takes to provide these kinds of services, how much time is involved — it is my bread, and butter after all. I am also an avid partaker of these kinds of events, although more and more lately, finding an authentic event in which I can actually afford to go to is becoming impossible.

Taking courses or workshops, and connecting to a community has become exclusive to the rich & wealthy.

Catwalks these days are modelling astrological symbols, bohemian chic, plastic crystals. And of course, it is difficult to resist the pull and tug of wanting to fit in, to look the part. At our core, we all want to belong somewhere and the terrifying thing, is that spirituality has begun to take advantage of that vulnerability, that need to belong. When the door is closed in our face because of money, we can feel feelings of shame, anger, and outrage, also hurt. Money, especially in Astrology, my field of study, is specifically linked to Self-Worth.

So in actual fact, the game that is being played- the game of exclusivity — has become a game of how worthy we are — it is money that buys us a place in heaven? That seems contradictory to every spiritual teaching there is, no?

It seems to me that every Retreat, every Workshop, every Gathering, carries some kind of heavy financial price tag. Something that is unreachable, unattainable, to many of us who simply need to be able to connect with people who we feel are our tribe. But, are they? Can they possibly be? Can people who shop exclusively at Yoga stores, who wear only the trendiest of Spiritual Apparel (which, let’s remind ourselves, cost the earth), who regularly travel to Bali to experience multiple orgasms at the hands (ahem) of Tantrikas and practice yoga in frangipani scented groves — can these people really be our tribe?

Of course not. But does that take away the longing to be a part of it? The longing to experience the comfort of warm cup of chai after a 2 hour Yin Class taught by a master. I long for this experience. Don’t we all? After all, money equals value, so we see that which we pay more for, to have more value, including our spirituality.

Which brings me to an important point. As someone who has a spiritual consultancy, I know the costs involved, I know that people pay for my years of experience, my hard work, my time and my energy. I know my worth. But the crucial difference is that I know my worth. Not too much, and not too little. There is a fine balancing point. I try not to let my ego drive me in the attainment of material security (although most of the time, I have to admit that I fail). The last thing I usually think about when I do my work, is what I am earning. My usual process of thinking is “I hope I can help this person in some way”.

Surely, that is what should drive us all?

I have come up against many trying experiences in which a door has closed in my face because of the lack of funds. They have all been disheartening and shameful in some way. From wanting to become a Yoga Teacher, to wanting to do TM (Transcendental Meditation), the walls have been flung up repeatedly because of the high cost of each, the impossible fees.

I can only imagine the multitudes of others whose mounting bills and high cost of living cannot afford them the peace of mind and opportunities these things can give. Of course we have to charge — there is no question about that — but the challenge is when do we stop allowing greed to get in the way of guiding others towards the light?

There are a few, wonderful, practices around that do afford us the ability to work on ourselves and help us connect to a community. We need more of these. We need to pull together as a team and contribute whatever we are able to — some of us much, and some, not so much. We give what we have. We remove the stamp of exclusivity on what should be essentially available to all, not just to the select few.

If Jesus was around in 2016, could he afford to be Spiritual? Could he attend a yoga class, afford to pay for a month of unlimited yoga? Could Buddha go on a breathwork retreat? Could Krishna do a Tantra Course? Could Mother Teresa attend a women’s Moon gathering?

My plea therefore goes out to these organizers in charge of putting events or courses like these together — consider your market. Who are you reaching out to? Are you accessible? Do you provide for those who may not be able to afford your services / come to your events? Is there a way that they can, and do you make this information known?

I’m not asking you to open your doors and be free. It can range from allowing one or two people to apply to attend, to an outright scholarship or sponsorship. It can be something like repeat for free (see Art of Living), or donation. Damn, it can just be to offer a volunteering position. The point is, that Spirituality has become a pursuit for the Wealthy, and has created a deep rift when it should unite us. We are one — truly — we need to practice what we preach. We can teach that we are all connected, when we place these boundaries up between human beings, when we create shame.

“Individually, we are a drop, together, we are an ocean”

FREE or NEARLY FREE events / courses:

1. Vipassana — the 10 day silent. Buddhist Retreat, held in almost every country around the world. Donation based.

2. Art of Living — 3–5 day Meditation & Yoga, using the Powerful Kriya Technique, held in almost every country around the world. Initial cost of around 40$, free to repeat thereafter.

3. — a Free Yoga Channel with quality videos.

4. Government supported therapy — find out if your country supports government funded therapy, get a referral letter from your GP and call ahead. Affordable, quality Therapy.

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