I have found two ways:
- use <select> within <form>:
<form [formGroup]="accountForm">
<select formControlName="sex">
<option value="">Please choose one</option>
<option value="female">Female</option>
<option value="male">Male</option>
</select>
</form>
2. set the selected attribute like this without <form>:
<select formControlName="sex">
<option value="" [selected]="isSelected"> Please choose one </option>
<option value="female"> Female </option>
<option value="male"> Male </option>
</select>
By the way, only <option selected> will not work.