Instead of a new years resolution, I reflected on what I learned in 2018…

I’m 37 years old, have a successful career, I’m married, have some good friends, and you’re going to find out it’s all a lie.

I do not want what I haven’t got.

Humans are social creatures. We need communities, friends, peers, and colleagues to help us get through life. Part of our interactions as humans involve comparing ourselves to those around us. This can help us understand our place in the world, set benchmarks to help us…

Almost two years ago I started to write and share personal essays on Medium. Writing was something I found I really enjoyed, and was actually a really great way for me to process my thoughts and feelings. Sharing each piece…