Sacred Time: Plan it, Reserve it, Defend it to Succeed and Survive in Law School
Everyone had a life before they got here. You care about things. Don’t forget that, as stupid as it sounds.
Is it a band you love? Is it a podcast? Is it a six mile run? Maybe you play the guitar. Perhaps you’re all world at Xbox. Do you come from a family where dinner on Sunday is sacrosanct?
Mine was easy. I haven’t missed a game of my favorite NFL team in a decade. Every Sunday (or Monday, or Thursday, or Saturday…life is more complicated than it was in my youth), I snap on the tv (or the online stream) and take in all three hours. Without a book opened. Usually with a seltzer and a black coffee. I just want to watch my team in peace and immerse myself in offensive schemes. I want to watch the wide receivers tango instead of looking at my contracts book.
When I get after my sacred time, nothing remotely related to the law enters my head. I live in a state of football-induced bliss.
I need this time. We all need this time. Keep the even keel.
The grand irony is stepping away from the law makes your more effective, efficient, and successful when you do study law. People grind themselves into the dirt for no reason, in an incessant, vain attempt to “get ahead.” Work smart when you work, and step back to enjoy your sacred time. Your wellbeing will send you an Edible Arrangement for it.
What could you do as sacred time? Here’s some thoughts. Commit to cooking a majestic dinner every Sunday. Walk for one hour and listen to your favorite podcast. Learn a new song on the guitar once a week. Walk your friend’s dog. If you’re an artist, commit to an hour of creative expression. Shoot for 1 to 3 hours. Stick to it.
It doesn’t matter what you do. It matters that you fulfill your identity by doing something you genuinely enjoy.
Trust me. You can spare an hour a week.