Let’s look at the numbers. There are 168 hours in a week. Let’s be optimistic and say that people get 8 hours of sleep a night. That leaves 112 waking hours. With an 80 hour work week, that leaves 32 hours. That’s about four and a half hours a day in which to travel, work, eat, and, y’know, live. Why would you want to do that to somebody you care about?