Uhuh. You’ve never been in a conversation with other men where the openly talk about groping some nearby woman.
Sure, yeah, most men don’t DO that. And if someone did it in front of YOU, maybe you’d say something or physical stop them. One can hope. But the fact that it’s OK to brag about it as long as you don’t get caught doing it… that’s a problem.
And quite frankly, you’re not the one who experiences rape. It’s the women who experience it, for the most part. So stop treating something as not a problem, just because it’s not a problem for you, specifically.