I tend to discover the spark characteristics of the people I am surrounding.
True, there are high and low standards over one thing/things, but that shouldn’t be the only reason for us to select our relationships. Because we as human are far more complex, the person who tidy up your garden may have low standards over things even with his job, but he/she maybe have the priceless attitude towards to positive life style. You can eliminate he/she for your successful moving forward net worth, you could also include he/she for your fulfilled happy life.
As a Chinese saying ”三人行 必有我师焉”, I believe if I randomly pick 3 people, there’s no doubt that I can learn something from at least one of them. This is also the way how to stay open minded.