Don't waste your energy on these 7 things!

Piyush Kumar Sharma
10 min readDec 17, 2023

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Today we will talk about those seven things on which you should not waste your energy.

1 - People who don't support.

First of all, the first thing you have to understand is that people who do not support you are okay, people who do not support you, so never waste your energy on them. I will tell you how Hitler became so powerful. This is how Hitler became so powerful. It was said that he did not keep friendship with those who did not support him, he never allowed his friends to come near him, he did not keep intimate friendship with anyone. He used to take 10 to 15 people with him and as soon as he started speaking, they would clap. Do you understand, he could not tolerate even the slightest negativity, he himself was so negative, but he did not live among negative people. He lived among those people who could boost his ambition. Do you understand? There is a rule in politics that you should not form an alliance with someone who does not support you. Congress did this many times. From 1996 to 1998, it formed the government several times and pulled it out. So, remember who these people are who support you and draw energy from you.

2 - One sided relationship.

Second and the most important, this is very dangerous, very dangerous, never waste your energy, you become friend zone, keep busy, I have explained the science of dealing with toxic people very well, mathematical methods, Napoleon Muna Pate, who is in love with Safin. He was crazy but somewhere it was a one-sided love, he was writing letter after letter and the dream was not responding and that very thing, that mental trauma, became the reason for his destruction. This is what Hitler says to a girl, to a Jewish girl. loved so much he didn’t return Said no, don’t love me, watch it many times, how to deal with it, if you like someone, you say, I like you, I love you, don’t say, don’t propose, say indirectly, it’s okay, I think our energy is matching, so can we do something? It is possible that there may be some positive outcome between us and if she refuses then back off completely. Say all the best and back off completely. There is no need to talk about anything here and there. There is no need to be stick. Many people are stuck in this, it’s been three to four years, here I am especially talking about boys, from there. It comes that if you stay as my friend, then being a friend is bothering them, it is bothering them in a bad way, okay, being a friend is wasting so much energy that you are getting angry at yourself, don’t do it, remove it from everywhere. Don’t cut off anything, brother, if you waste your energy on one sided relationship, you will be ruined. Remember, you will not get anything, so never ever waste on your energy because it is something that will take you from there in a very deep well. It is very difficult to get out, you get insulted, your self-respect goes away on your own. If you question, what am I doing, what am I doing, then get out of here and there is a very easy way to get out. No matter how much mistake you make, keep your emotions under control. No matter how much anger you have, don’t do anything like this. Tell me to keep calm and just move away from there, it is very simple, if the path is bad, otherwise why take another path? If you go by some other path, then one-sided relationship is very dangerous and shakes you to the core. Infact. Many famous personalities had one-sided relationships due to which they became very haters. Book from “Sambhaog Se Samadhi to Samadhi” Our senses tell us that if we do not get love then we become haters, and this is also true.

3 - What other thinks.

Third, don’t trust those people at all. Don’t waste your energy on those people. Pay attention to other things that other people think about you. What will you do by thinking about them? You can feel what they are thinking, right? You are thinking that I don’t know, they are not talking about me, there is no point in all this. Let’s tell a story that a husband and wife were going, the husband and wife were going, they were going on a horse, so the horses. But when they were going there, they said there, hey, what kind of man are you, tell me, you are going on a horse, the poor horse is troubled, it is a strange mad man, the woman is very useless, so she is troubling the horse so much, if the horse will not be subdued then the husband will get down. Okay, husband and wife both got down and started taking the horse on foot, then after a little further we met and said, look what kind of a person he is that he is making his wife walk on foot, he has no manners, then he made the wife sit on top. He started walking and then a man said, look what a stupid person this person is on foot. The horse is walking near him, he is still walking, okay, then again, he sat on the horse, both the people sat on the horse, no, this time they abandoned the horse saying that we don’t want the horse, get out, okay then. After that the horse went away and then after that someone met him and said, Oh God, which donkey sent this horse to me, then the thing is that the world will never be happy with you. What happened once was that a man opened a fish shop. Fish Market, someone said, wow, what a shop, Fish Enterprises is very nice, then a man came, a big businessman, and said, remove the F from it, remove the F. This will not work very well; it doesn’t look good. He removed the ‘I’ and ‘Ish’ remained. Then a man said, ‘Remove the ‘I’ and ‘she’ remained. Then he added ‘S’. You can’t make everyone happy, and you don’t have to make everyone happy. Hitler never won. What was Hitler? He has written in his book ‘Pun Keef’, ‘My Truth’, ‘I have targeted only those people who Wanted to spread propaganda, I have targeted a very selected audience, I am not targeting everyone, I am not saying. Where did I say that you all love me, but yes, if those whom I am targeting succeed, then I will come out and this is what happened where Stalin destroyed many Ukrainians, destroyed them, killed them under the threat of death. Mao JD did such a thing, brother, the whole party did not care against him, people are with him, so you have to understand that people will support you, people are with him and leave aside whatever people think about you.

4 - Occasionally think for you

Do not waste any energy on those people whom you meet occasionally and above all those who call you occasionally for work. If someone is calling you after a long time, then he has always called you for work. Keep in mind that he has not called you for love, he has called you for work so that some work can be done. The second thing is that many times we go to some people and if someone speaks rudely to us, then keep calm, what happened, I will tell you one more story, two big saints, one old and one young, now the saints are told that brother, woman, from sexual intercourse to samadhi. I reviewed it in the same way, you will see that book, the big women were told that hey hey and other women, far away from woman, woman is the door of hell, it is said in this way, brother, saint Mahatma, he was going, so there was a young saint. And there was an old man, he must have been 60–70 years old, so a woman in front of him was having a problem. Okay, the river was there, she had to board the boat and she could not board. There was a river in front, so the young saint, the young saint, went and helped him, held his hand, okay, he came back, now this old man who is thinking again and again, oh holy, have you become impure, what is this, what have you done? You touched a woman, oh my god, oh my God, and let me tell you that salvation is achieved only through a woman, feminine energy is the strongest, okay, no problem, we will talk about it some other day, so now back here. If he is coming, then this thing is constantly going on in his mind, okay, this thing is constantly going on in his mind, so now what happened here that when he said that Now I will tell the Guru, then as soon as I went to the Guru, he said, look, he has touched a woman, then the young man said, which woman have I touched, he says, “I don’t remember, that woman says brother, that woman is more than me.” Why does he say that you have started loving him? That’s why you are still thinking about him. Don’t carry the burden on your shoulders. So if you are meeting someone casually, the night is gone. Why are you upset with him in your mind? What has to be done, someone has said something, remove it, what have to be done, you will get it the next day, you will get it in the next hour, such people come and go.

5 - Don’t solve others problem

Don’t solve other problem son, you will be ruined by this, okay look, give knowledge only if someone asks you, otherwise don’t give it, okay why am I saying this, India sent IP KF in Sri Lankan Civil War, Indian Peacekeeping Force. We had nothing to do with it, we sent it in 1987, it came back in 1991, it ran away and came back, we have the audacity to not get into the trap of others, do whatever you want to do unless you are asked, Rajiv in the very next year in 1992 Gandhi was killed, why is this the same IP because of KF, another example is Afghanistan because of Indian Peacekeeping Force, first Russia entered, then America entered, nothing was found, it has returned after defeat, you see all over the world, if you put your hand in someone else’s trap, your hands will burn many times. You must have noticed that the problem you are solving is of a very high level. When the matter is on a big level, then think on a small level. Many times, you must have seen that you are going there, whatever problem happened between your friend and your wife, later both of them met, you became villains, sometimes Don’t waste your energy in other’s problems, focus on yourself.

6 - Who distract you

Don’t waste your energy on those things which keep you distracted, okay, this is also very dangerous, the whole of November has passed, brother, do your work, you won’t be able to run the house with Moe, okay, Moe is trending a lot, I am having a lot of fun. Watching reels starts from one second It happens that one hour is short, it changes without you realizing it, you feel a little more, a little more, a little more, the game is over, we run after the phone, the meaning of our work has become such that after leaving the relationships, a friend is sitting in front of us. Girlfriend is sitting, wife is sitting, mother is sitting, they are just busy on the phone, so this distraction is very dangerous. Stay away from it at all costs and focus on yourself.

7 - If not interested then don’t impress

If a person is not interested in you, then do not try to impress him, do not waste your energy in him. See, if he is interested then it is okay, whether it is workplace, family, or relationship, if that person is interested in you. No, if he is putting you on a shoe, then stay away from him completely. Look at him again. No, the no contact rule is straight. So, these are the seven places where you should not waste your energy.

You are awesome :)

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Piyush Kumar Sharma

A student who plays the part of a writer, a poet, and an athlete. My thoughts and world. Just want to keep sharing thoughts, experiments & new stuff.