I have been considered an attractive woman most of my life.
Debbie L Belair
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You have no fucking clue, how many “unattractive” or average people are would kill somebody to be “victimized” for being good looking. There is a huge difference between hostility you may face that derives from jealousy versus the rejection that average/unattractive people face EVERY DAY. People are ruder to you, care less about what your saying, and are less likely to want to be around you just based on how you look. This is proven facts. Multiple studies have been done about the quality of life led by attractive people versus unattractive. Dont EVER say “i would rather be ugly” because you have no fucking clue what actual ugly people go through every day. Literally nobody cares that i exist, beyond the people im close with. And not everybody is extroverted but imagine being somebody that likes socializing/attention (like myself) but isn’t good looking enough to get to experience those things. Cause you wanna know the most fucked up part? Personality matters right? Well guess what, theres PLENTY of attractive people who are also intelligent and have “good” or interesting personalities, there are plenty of talented attractive people too. So being not attractive and having any of those things is automatically valued less because sure i can play guitar, but that guy can play guitar too and hes good looking! so who do you think the public will pay attention to? theres exceptions to the rule but seriously the woe is me stories about attractive people receiving unsolicited attention blows my fucking mind. I’ve NEVER once received unsolicited flirting, and though id imagine it gets annoying in excess, being pretty much INVISIBLE to the majority of the earth’s population (not to mention never or rarely getting to have sex without paying for it) is excessively worse. When was the last time you heard about somebody committing suicide because they were too attractive to where it affected their lives negatively? People kill themselves every day because they dont meet the standard of beauty and never will due to genetics. Appreciate what you fucking have.