Dang she can write… but…

while I think its important not to shame the people you are dating, a lot of her conclusions seem to be based around the idea that everyone is ashamed. Men are ashamed so they have to come up with an identity to validate their predilections, so she creates an idea that if he has a type and shes not it, she should be deeply disturbed about it, which seems unhealthy… I just don’t think you should make assumptions about how ashamed people are about their sexuality.

That being said, you shouldn’t go on and on about how the person you are dating doesn’t fit into your type… that’s just being a dick…

Sooo moral is don’t date dicks?