Doubts and insecurities are most destructive. Not only because they mess up with our peace of mind through superfluous confusing “ifs” and “buts” , pushing us to take wrong decisions or on the contrary to give up on projects which could change our life for the better. But also because they often make us regret the things we hadn’t embarked on or rejected initially. We felt in a mess giving up on them then and now we are in a mess again because we think we should have done otherwise . The impossibility of going back and undoing what’s done drives us still more desperate and we get stuck in futile dreaming, scolding ourselves, holding back and stop enjoying the present moment and envisaging the future.