It’s your own story:

“Life is the most difficult exam. Most people fail because they try to copy others, not realizing everyone has a different question paper.”

It disturbed me to realize that people are pro-actively trying to copy others and live other people’s lives and dreams. It disturbed me even more to discern that I have also been doing that a lot.

Now that I have realized the importance of having our own story and beautifying it, I would like to share with everyone my findings and my sense of internal control that I have developed through this..

My internal questions. My tensions. My dreams. My passion. My fears. My family. My money. My story. My life. My soul.

It is now about me. Some might think that i am being egotistical, but i sincerely believe this is the way to go. This i will try to explain here.

I have read it that it’s about the energy and frequencies that affect our attractions/repulsions from people. The people we get attracted to, offer some kind of light to us. Similarly, we are the source for others. Now, the people we get attracted to are generally superior to us, in our own judgement. We then observe them incessantly, trying to view each move.. There is always a psychological reason we like a person. There is always something we have been craving for and we see that in the other person.

Some might find it difficult to lose weight and one fine day find a person in the perfect shape and start to emulate that person.

Seems familiar, right?

For the surface of the statement seems perfectly logical to do, there have been deep consequences of this and a little awareness of the thin line between “copying” and “idealizing” needs to be maintained.

I am a firm believer of transfer of energy. By this, I mean that I strongly believe learning from others. But what we have been largely seeing is that people try to copy each thing about others.

This leads to loss of originality. We all have seen under-confident people around us. Maybe some of us are those people. Well, I was one.

Once we lose our originality, we forget our origin. We forget our strengths. We are so immersed in living others’ lives that we forget to unravel the most amazing gift that life has given us: our story!

What I want to suggest is that, everyone deserves each good quality that exists in the universe. But we should only try to adopt those qualities we admire from our heart. And specially, when we try to copy a quality of a person, we inherit a few others too, which might be bad for us.

I have tried to master this calling of my heart. And same thing, i want to suggest is: Follow your heart to build your story.

We should do what our heart wants from us. Once we have decided what is wants, we can easily look in the external universe, how we can achieve it. For that, probably, others people/models are easy to follow.

But the flow should be internal->external.

This is going to lead us towards our path. This is going to save so much energy of wandering like nomads trying to be someone else..

I hope I was clear in explaining the importance of “our own story”.

Feedbacks are welcome! :)