Long Distance Relationship pros and cons.

Pooja Ambulge
3 min readMay 3, 2018

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Relationships are the most delicate thing. It all depends on individuals to maintain it well or tear it apart. I have quite heard from lot of people that it is hard to maintain a long distance relationship as there are numerous constraints like different time zones, absence of your loved ones around and the attachment between the two souls.

People who are in a long distance relationships are usually prone to testify the love, care, loyalty. Many fail in executing loyalty towards their partners which traces them to fall apart. Though the two hearts are on different time zones, I believe that the hearts stay connected. Perhaps, a strong love survives and distance can not measure the amount of love the two souls bear for each other.

There is pleasure when a person is part of a long distance relationship. The wait is quite hard but the will to meet and see each other is really a nice feeling. We wish that the person whom you love you the most to be beside you on the bed and the morning begins with a warm good morning kiss rather than a text message which reads GOOD MORNING/ GOOD NIGHT. Sometimes the wait goes really long but remember your love is tested. Not all can wait for their loved ones. We usually get persuaded by another good looking person; If you are clear enough of what you want in your life, then you will surely wait and prove the fidelity.

The only means of communication is through Internet. Thanks for the advanced technology currently available, it has made life easier. Contacting your love through Skype, FaceTime, WatsApp audio calls, Chats in many of the social medias.

I agree it is not the same feeling when the loved one is around. Though the technology brings us close but it fails to bring us closer. It is obvious we miss the cuddles, laughs, giggles, gags, gaze, dates, touch and also fights which we cannot possibly gain through the social medias. Having your loved one around makes you feel happy, secure, adorable and lovable.

Well, it is not really hard to be in a long distance relationships. You start understanding each other well. It is recommended to avoid arguments, fights, misunderstandings. The communication can be good or it can go worse; It depends on how well the couples understand each other and put all the efforts to stay together on a very long term. Only thing is that you miss each other terribly. We wish to stay close to each other but it is fun. We humans usually don’t understand the value of someone unless we are far to each other. We get into fights and chaos when found around but everything vanishes when different time zones come into picture. Love ascends when the hearts are away (Which doesn’t mean that love mitigates when we stay together). All I mean to say is that love gets amplified. We understand the significance of the person because we know the pain of staying away and the juggles of wait.

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