What the fuck now?
Feeling overwhelmed or stuck in life? Having difficulty taking the first step because you have no clue what the hell you’re doing? That pretty much sounds like everyone at the very beginning of this process, meaning it’s only a temporary feeling.
But how do I start? You start with what you’re already doing! You’ve already made the decision to change something, otherwise you wouldn’t be reading the shit I’ve put on here would you? Now that I’ve called you out on what you may not have known, what are you going to do next? Are you going to let fear of the unknown and unfamiliar scare you to the point of doing nothing, or are you going to get off your ass and embrace the change?
Here’s a secret for each and every one of you…change is immediate. I know, total mind blow right? Let me explain, change is not something that takes years to achieve, it happens in a matter of seconds. By simply reading this you are changing, and by the time you’re done you’ve changed even more. What the hell are you talking about Tiffany?
I’m talking about forgetting this bullshit idea that you have to wait and wait and wait for a change to take place. It’s an illusion, an excuse. Change is constantly occurring in every moment that you breathe, because you are never the person you were an hour ago or even a minute ago. Why? Because every minute you experience something new, see something new or think something new. You’re constantly and continuously evolving into another version of yourself.
Now that we have that part figured out, let’s get down to the harder part of it all. Now that the change has occurred, what are you going to do with it? Are you going to keep doing the same things because they “worked” in the past and you “know” how to deal with the familiar? Or are you going to decide to embrace the change and move with it, use it to make a better version of yourself and to create the person you’ve always wanted to be?
Tough choice isn’t it? Wrong! It’s not a difficult choice at all because it’s an inevitable choice! Whether you decide to go with the flow or resist it, you’re going to end up experiencing it anyways. This happens because you’re not the only thing in this world that is changing. Just as you change every minute, so do other people and so does life. You can try to resist it, not quite sure how successful you’ll be, or you can fucking go with it and love the ride!
Where do you want your life to go? What do you see for yourself? Is it the same thing that you have or are right now? If so, good luck with trying to maintain the equilibrium that is your life. To the rest of you that came up with something different, you’ve already taken the first step. You have accepted that life is an ever changing entity and if you’re smart you can have it work in your favor.
If you’re ready to get the show going, ready to create the best version of yourself then congratulations because you have proven that you have the balls to do it. Now we just figure out which ride at the carnival we want to go on, strap ourselves in and go for it. So prepare for the best ride of your life, because even the screams of fear on that roller coaster make you feel alive.