Worth is not something you believe. It’s something you build. Read that sentence again because most people think they either believe or don’t. They don’t understand that they can build their worth. Or in my words, reworth yourself. We do this by creating → new experiences → shifts beliefs → more new experiences → new beliefs.
Tea is romance. Coffee is sex. Post a party, if a guy goes to drop a girl to her place, and if she asks him to come over for some coffee, it will mostly lead to sex. If she asks him to come over for tea, that’ll mostly be chit-chat or romance, which may or may not lead to sex. Both are different and beautiful. But tea heals. Coffee simply wakes you up and makes you chirpy with a cute slap across your face. That’s the schism.