Are You Being Loved For What You Are Not & Have Not ??
Do you ever think the poeple with whom you are surrounded by & for whom you feel you can do everything are the one’s who really love you ?? The real you ?
Or
They love the person You are pretending to be and to get enough attention and their love .
You always read quotation about “we are not born to impress others” ….. but do we really believe it , somehow all of us know it very well but deep down inside you all do the same thing. You may pretend no this is not the truth I am different guys just peek inside and you will able to get the answer.
“you can’t accept the rejections and always try to be what others want you to be “
You start liking,disliking,walking ,eating , behaving like the person in front of you so that they can love you and eventually you become a person what you are not .
It’s not limited to just your human behaviour it is also related with braggery.
As being 90’s kids changes are taking rapidly and you cant accept what you actually have . You believe in show off even with your financial limits . specially happend when you are with your age group. As an example you are hooking out with your friends you try to be superior among them , try to show you are everything and have more pocket money than them . So that they will choose you over any other of them.
You start showing what you have not so that people in front of you will never leave and it will also maintain their interest to be with you.
The happiness & the attention that you are getting are they permanent ??
You are doing all these for getting external and digital love but is this love & happiness is permanent do you ever think.
Let me tell you the answer no they are not because all you are getting is not actually you it’s a person who is overflowing your real personality.
Even the friends who are with you just for what you have will be the one to leave you with the end of the thing (money,dresses,makeups,bikes, etc.)
Now you will say if I dont do this they leave, they change , they will not love ….. Aren’t you..?
But bro it’s better if they leave you now because you can’t pretend for the lifetime and at some point they gonna leave you so it’s better if it happened now. Why to waste your only life on them who don’t appreciate for what you really are.
Always remember :- “If love happened because of a reason then it will end by the end of that reason”
Do what makes you happy , be with them who really appreciate the real you,who cheers you to do great, who are not with you just for a reason, who really love you not for the things you have , be with them who let you to enjoy yourself, let you to show what you really are , show what you really have .